As a youngster, this was the positive anti-drug usage slogan brought to my school by our local DARE officer. And outside of a few years of “herbal” stimulation, the message hit home pretty successfully. Today there is an equally dangerous temptation that needs to be met with more frequent declines then is currently happening and that is sex. From the male point of view, the undeniable fact is that there has never been as much access to the Snappy Nappy Dugout as there is today. I know it, he knows it, all the guys in the gym know it, hell, and the women know it too. While the quality of “nana” obviously varies, it is still plentiful enough for any guy who can put a coherent sentence together to “get a nut.” This may be wonderland to many but please do not be deceived.
When I was younger, my peers and I were brought up to believe that anything worth having was worth putting in work to obtain. You wanted to ball like Mike and make the Varsity team? Then you had to practice daily. Looking to attend that college of your dreams? Then you had to study and work for it. Honor Roll, PSAT’s, SATS, etc, etc. It was basic cause and effect. Good things were earned by legitimate work and that included female attention. You would rarely hear of the “hit and run” sexual experience too much because females just didn’t get down like that back then. You had to bide your time, go on the “dates”, do the right things and then maybe you’d have the chance at getting some. Even the “cool” kids that got lots of attention weren’t getting it in as much as you were led to believe.
But, those days are long gone. The combination of easy access socializing, 24/7 high quality info sharing via mobile devices and the equalized roles of women in society has resulted in an altered dynamic among the genders. Sex isn’t hard to get any more. It’s more about guessing the magic word with that respective person than it is about getting to know anyone. While that can be enjoyable, anything in abundance comes with issues. Unplanned/unwanted pregnancy, STD’s or even if it’s not that extreme you may just come across the “I’ll sex him into a relationship” female. The reversal of the adolescent process has you mastering all types of Kama sutra positions after your “Myspace hook up” and then trying to learn more about each other. Things will get messy.
Don’t get me wrong. Sex is great, have it and enjoy it. But men please understand the power of “no.” Women were brought up to understand its power and while many of them are in the “I can do what a man can do” mind set, don’t succumb to the urge to “fu*k every girl in the world.” Turn a few down. Reject that late night booty call that will have you tired as hell for work in the morning. What makes something pleasurable is as much about when it happens as it is about how(often) it happens. Female have known since forever that there is sex appeal in having will power. And if she’s willing to do it today it’s very likely she’ll still be into you tomorrow.
s a youngster, this was the positive anti-drug usage slogan brought to my school by our local DARE officer. And outside of a few years of “herbal” stimulation, the message hit home pretty successfully. Today there is an equally dangerous temptation that needs to be met with more frequent declines then is currently happening and that is sex. From the male point of view, the undeniable fact is that there has never been as much access to the Snappy Nappy Dugout as there is today. I know it, he knows it, all the guys in the gym know it, hell, and the women know it too. While the quality of “nana” obviously varies, it is still plentiful enough for any guy who can put a coherent sentence together to “get a nut.” This may be wonderland to many but please do not be deceived.
As young boys, my peers and I were brought up to believe that anything worth having needed some degree of work to obtain. You wanted to ball like Mike and make the Varsity team? Then you had to practice. Looking to attend that college of your dreams? Then you had to study and work for it. Honor Roll, PSAT’s, SATS, etc, etc. It was basic cause and effect. Good things were earned by legitimate work and that included female attention. You would rarely hear of the “hit and run” sexual experience too much because females just didn’t get down like that back then. You had to bide your time, go on the “dates”, do the right things and maybe you’d have the chance at getting some. Even the “cool” kids that got lots of attention weren’t getting it in as much as you were led to believe.
But, those days are long gone. The combination of easy access socializing, 24/7 high quality info sharing via mobile devices and the equalized roles of women in society has resulted in an altered dynamic among the genders. Sex isn’t hard to get any more. It’s more about guessing the magic word with that respective person than it is about getting to know anyone. Now while that can be enjoyable, anything in abundance comes with issues. Unplanned/unwanted pregnancy, STD’s or even if it’s not that extreme you may just come across the “I’ll sex him into a relationship” female. The reversal of the adolescent process has you mastering all types of Kama sutra positions after your “Myspace hook up” and then trying to learn more about each other. Things will get messy.
Don’t get me wrong. Sex is great, have it and enjoy it. But men please understand the power of “no.” Women were brought up to understand its power and while many of them are in the “I can do what a man can do” mind set, don’t succumb to the urge to “fu*k every girl in the world.” Turn a few down. Reject that late night booty call that will have you tired as hell for work in the morning. What makes something pleasurable is as much about when it happens as it is about how(often) it happens. Female have known since forever that there is sex appeal in having will power. And if she’s willing to do it today it’s very likely she’ll still be into you tomorrow.