As a youngster, this was the positive anti-drug usage slogan brought to my school by our local DARE officer. And outside of a few years of “herbal” stimulation, the message hit home pretty successfully. Today there is an equally dangerous temptation that needs to be met with more frequent declines then is currently happening and that is sex. From the male point of view, the undeniable fact is that there has never been as much access to the Snappy Nappy Dugout as there is today. I know it, he knows it, all the guys in the gym know it, hell, and the women know it too. While the quality of “nana” obviously varies, it is still plentiful enough for any guy who can put a coherent sentence together to “get a nut.” This may be wonderland to many but please do not be deceived.

When I was younger, my peers and I were brought up to believe that anything worth having was worth putting in work to obtain. You wanted to ball like Mike and make the Varsity team? Then you had to practice daily. Looking to attend that college of your dreams? Then you had to study and work for it. Honor Roll, PSAT’s, SATS, etc, etc. It was basic cause and effect. Good things were earned by legitimate work and that included female attention. You would rarely hear of the “hit and run” sexual experience too much because females just didn’t get down like that back then. You had to bide your time, go on the “dates”, do the right things and then maybe you’d have the chance at getting some. Even the “cool” kids that got lots of attention weren’t getting it in as much as you were led to believe.

But, those days are long gone. The combination of easy access socializing, 24/7 high quality info sharing via mobile devices and the equalized roles of women in society has resulted in an altered dynamic among the genders. Sex isn’t hard to get any more. It’s more about guessing the magic word with that respective person than it is about getting to know anyone. While that can be enjoyable, anything in abundance comes with issues. Unplanned/unwanted pregnancy, STD’s or even if it’s not that extreme you may just come across the “I’ll sex him into a relationship” female. The reversal of the adolescent process has you mastering all types of Kama sutra positions after your “Myspace hook up” and then trying to learn more about each other. Things will get messy.

Don’t get me wrong. Sex is great, have it and enjoy it. But men please understand the power of “no.” Women were brought up to understand its power and while many of them are in the “I can do what a man can do” mind set, don’t succumb to the urge to “fu*k every girl in the world.” Turn a few down. Reject that late night booty call that will have you tired as hell for work in the morning. What makes something pleasurable is as much about when it happens as it is about how(often) it happens. Female have known since forever that there is sex appeal in having will power. And if she’s willing to do it today it’s very likely she’ll still be into you tomorrow.

s a youngster, this was the positive anti-drug usage slogan brought to my school by our local DARE officer. And outside of a few years of “herbal” stimulation, the message hit home pretty successfully. Today there is an equally dangerous temptation that needs to be met with more frequent declines then is currently happening and that is sex. From the male point of view, the undeniable fact is that there has never been as much access to the Snappy Nappy Dugout as there is today. I know it, he knows it, all the guys in the gym know it, hell, and the women know it too. While the quality of “nana” obviously varies, it is still plentiful enough for any guy who can put a coherent sentence together to “get a nut.” This may be wonderland to many but please do not be deceived.

As young boys, my peers and I were brought up to believe that anything worth having needed some degree of work to obtain. You wanted to ball like Mike and make the Varsity team? Then you had to practice. Looking to attend that college of your dreams? Then you had to study and work for it. Honor Roll, PSAT’s, SATS, etc, etc. It was basic cause and effect. Good things were earned by legitimate work and that included female attention. You would rarely hear of the “hit and run” sexual experience too much because females just didn’t get down like that back then. You had to bide your time, go on the “dates”, do the right things and maybe you’d have the chance at getting some. Even the “cool” kids that got lots of attention weren’t getting it in as much as you were led to believe.

But, those days are long gone. The combination of easy access socializing, 24/7 high quality info sharing via mobile devices and the equalized roles of women in society has resulted in an altered dynamic among the genders. Sex isn’t hard to get any more. It’s more about guessing the magic word with that respective person than it is about getting to know anyone. Now while that can be enjoyable, anything in abundance comes with issues. Unplanned/unwanted pregnancy, STD’s or even if it’s not that extreme you may just come across the “I’ll sex him into a relationship” female. The reversal of the adolescent process has you mastering all types of Kama sutra positions after your “Myspace hook up” and then trying to learn more about each other. Things will get messy.

Don’t get me wrong. Sex is great, have it and enjoy it. But men please understand the power of “no.” Women were brought up to understand its power and while many of them are in the “I can do what a man can do” mind set, don’t succumb to the urge to “fu*k every girl in the world.” Turn a few down. Reject that late night booty call that will have you tired as hell for work in the morning. What makes something pleasurable is as much about when it happens as it is about how(often) it happens. Female have known since forever that there is sex appeal in having will power. And if she’s willing to do it today it’s very likely she’ll still be into you tomorrow.

Dame Dash spoke to someone about his take on the whole Chris Brown and what he had to say was

“He did it to me..”

He might have a point.  Jay-Z has done numerous songs with Dre, the guy who beat the living daylight out of Dee Barnes and brags about it.

Not to mention Jay-Z makes songs about selling drugs, killing people, and pimping women (and collaborate with several artists that say the same.)

Is Jay-Z being a hypocrite?

Or was Jay-Z right on the “Put On” Remix when he said:

“All these ni%*as taking credit for the work that I put in
If you really put me on put yourself on then…”

“Michael Jackson is not a black icon” -Bill O’Reilly

If you ever doubted it, this video is obvious proof that FOX News is complete garbage.  You are better off picking up ‘Star’ or any one of those stupid tabloid magazines that’ll succesfully rot your brain.  During the Presidential campaign, they were obvious in their support of McCain, and they were equally obvious in their coverage of what should be heralded as a positive turning point in the evolution of this great nation-Obama being sworn into office. Then when they finally decided to cover the inauguration as the top story, it was done with innuendos, downplaying the excitement and celebration. If you don’t believe me or if you missed it, here’s proof: a link to a video on the speech putting emphasis on ‘In his own words: “I, Barack Hussein Obama” as if that was the most important phrase he spoke. Just another way to mislead and warp peoples perceptions by regurgitating the non-factor that is President Obama’s middle name. Now they have a link that reads “Steal Obama’s Secrets, Apply His Magic”, a tutorial on how you can speak like Obama. As if he only got to where he is based solely on the fact that he is a good speaker. 

The nail in the coffin has to be this incident with Bill O’ Reilly.  He is not a journalist. He is not unbiased. No Spin Zone? My ass. The man doesn’t even know what the “spinning” is.  He is the worst kind of idiot there is. I hadn’t really heard anything about race during all this coverage except now. How ironic that it’s on Fox News.  My point being, FOX is garbage. And as long as bottom feeders, conservatives, haters and elitists thrive on this negativity, scumbags like Bill O’ Reilly that make up their lineup will always have jobs. God forbid they put a positive spin on anything. They’d be done for.  But to end on a good note, I will say this: I dont really know Dr. Marc Lamont Hill well enough to gauge opinion, but I have to say he’s a great orator, and its nice to see that their is some sensible people on their payroll.  As much as I wish that their advertisers pull out and the network suddenly gets shut down, if they do stay on air, I really hope FOX news keeps him.

Another tribute song for Michael Jackson.  This one is from Usher, Day 26, and T-Pain, with Michael Jackson vocals.

Listen/Download Here: Stop Playin -Michael Jackson feat Usher, Day 26, T-Pain

Lil Wayne has made a remix of Michael Jackson’s song ‘Dirty Diana’. The song has made its way on to the internet and is a reported remix by independent music producer Dem Jointz. The song Dirty Diana was one of the seven hit singles which topped number one on the Billboard Hot 100 charts off Michael Jackson’s 1987 Billboard chart topping album “Bad.”

The “King of Pop” Michael Jackson, whose song ‘Dirty Diana’ crossed over from pop into the rock genre with it’s rock sound, guitar riffs, and lyrics of a predatory lover named Diana, once believed he would have to remove his song from a UK performance due to fear of offending Princess Diana. Later Jackson was surprised to hear from the United Kingdom princess herself that the song was one of her personal favorites so Jackson actually went on to perform the song in UK at the 1988 performance at Wembley Stadium in front of Princess Diana and Prince Charles.

You can listen and download the remix to the song below:

 Dirty Diana Remix- Michael Jackson feat Lil Wayne

Here is the latest tribute to Michael Jackson.  I know Ron Artest meant well when he recorded this.  But lets face it. Our newest Laker needs to stick to hooping.  Clearly the booth is no place for him.  Let me end this on a good note though.  Umm, lets see.  The concept for the song was good, and I was feeling the beat.  But that about sums it up.

LISTEN HERE

For all you Jay-Z fans. I’m sure you are eagerly waiting for that Blueprint 3 album. Here’s a little taste of what’s to come. This freestyle is said to be the intro to Jay-Z’s upcoming album Blueprint 3. Here is the footage from Friday night’s show in Vegas.

Eminem unveils his latest music video, this one is for his featured single, “Beautiful.” The music video was officially set to launch tommorrow but OnSmash has seemed to have already gotten their hands on the video.  The album is titled ‘Relapse’ and has been out since May 15th. The video was filmed at several locations in his hometown of Detroit such as the historic Tiger Stadium, Michigan Central Train Station and the Packard Motor Car Company. 

And without further ado, here is the video: